Tuesday, February 05, 2008


  1. The practice or condition of having a single sexual partner during a period of time.
  2. The practice or condition of being married to only one person at a time.
  3. The practice of marrying only once in a lifetime.
I think it is interesting the amount of people that I meet that do not grasp the concept of monogamy. I guess this falls under the same catagory as my love post, it is a hard subject to grasp if you are foreign to the concept.

I was having lunch with a group of friend, and I happened to enter a conversation with someone who I had meet that day, about the type of guys I am into. This conversation go very heated, he then mentioned that he and his partner have an open relationship because thats what you do when you have been together for 10 years.

I was completely shocked at the statement made, I really wanted to make a conservative statement, but thought best to bite my tongue, than sour an already rocky friendship.
People are entitled to their own lives, opinions and values, and I should not be telling people how to live their lives.

I am a firm believer in monogamy, if you are going to have a relationship you stick to it 100%
what is the point in being in one, if you don't reap the rewards and benefits of it.
I can think of nothing more passionate than being intimate with one person, as sick as it sounds it is enough to get me going.



Snowie said...

EWWWWWW I'm being monogamus! Kinda...

If this is one defination!:

monogamy (mə-nŏg'ə-mē)

1. The practice or condition of having a single sexual partner during a period of time

Haha...If I wasn't so addicted to sleeping with him I would go and find more to get out of this horrible situation, but its just so darned good...

Hmmm, sorry....

Matthew Mawkes said...

Monogamy is a beautiful thing, and it takes a lot of maturity to go with it; it's rare though darling! Good luck!